O Lord, rebuke me not in your anger,
nor discipline me in your wrath!
Ps 38:1
We had previously explored how suffering, specifically disease, has both a scientific and moral explanation. These explanations are not logically contradictory much less mutually exclusive. We learned that death and suffering exist because of evil and sin. Creation was corrupted by our first parent’s disobedience and rebellion. It is hard for us to accept a non-quid pro quo cause of suffering unless we understand the true power and evil of sin. The depth of it is experienced in personal and corporate travails. We come to appreciate the gravity of the transgression when we look to the Cross and see the proportionate punishment.
How do we respond to such tragedy? Abstract philosophical and theological exercises help instruct us but bring little comfort much less healing. The Scriptural answer is the lament. Laments can be individual or communal. The Oxford English Dictionary defines lament as “a passionate expression of grief.” Biblical lament is more than just raw emotion. It is a prayerful process wherein we turn to God with that grief and expect a response. This most ancient and divinely prescribed way of grieving has much to offer us in this high-tech world.
Laments generally consist of five basic parts:[1]
- Address and cry for help.
- The lament – a description and expression of suffering.
- Statement of faith and trust.
- Petition for intervention and relief.
- Doxology – praise and often a vow.
There is sometimes a confession of sin and petition for forgiveness based upon God’s covenantal promises. Not all laments have every feature, but they do have in common the basic cry for help, petition for intervention and statement of trust. Exploring Biblical lament helps us understand how we seek help in our covenantal relationship with God. It is through our praying laments that our Lord helps us. We can use the liturgical laments available in scripture or compose our own.
Psalm 38 is attributed to David and the superscription notes that it is for the memorial offering. The memorial offering was a burnt offering of grain done in remembrance of what God had done and to show thanksgiving, praise, and devotion (Lev. 2:1-3). It was probably sung during on these occasions.
Notice that David addresses God by his personal, covenantal name, YHWH. This speaks of a relationship between persons and not some vague cry to an impersonal entity. David cries out to someone he knows, is alive, empathetic and willing to respond. YHWH knows David as the creator who “formed my inward parts” and “knitted me together in my mother’s womb” (Ps. 139:13). That knowledge includes an understanding human anguish. Incarnate God wept when he saw the pain surrounding the death of his friend Lazarus (John 11:35). The writer of Hebrews can proclaim: “For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sin” (Heb. 4:15).
God is our loving father who has the authority and power to answer our petitions. His covenantal love consists of promises to that effect; promises we can claim and depend upon. The delivery of Israel from the bondage in Egypt points toward a far greater deliverance of his children from death and corruption. The Exodus was a fulfillment of God’s covenant just like his promise to hear and answer prayer.
We need never fear, for God is always with us (Deut. 31:6; Josh. 1:9; Is. 41:10; Mt 28:20; and Heb. 13:5). So sure is God’s presence and faithfulness that Paul writes “For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Ro. 8:38-9).
YHWH is our father who judges and corrects, therefore: “Know then in your heart that, as a man disciplines his son, the LORD your God disciplines you” (Deut. 8:5). We should neither despise nor grow weary of this discipline (Prov. 3:11). Chastisement leads the faithful away from sin and death (Prov. 5:23; 15:10; 1 Cor. 11:32). God’s discipline is both loving and beneficial (Heb. 12:6-10) and is of “just measure” (Je. 48:28).
David is crying unto God not to rebuke him in anger nor discipline him in wrath. The Lord’s anger and wrath are penal and not necessarily corrective. David is not asking YHWH to withhold fatherly chastisement. Allen Ross phrases it “do not in your anger rebuke me” and “do not in your wrath chasten me.” Here, God’s anger and wrath are the concern and not simply a rebuke or discipline. David calls upon YHWH’s covenantal promises that include loving chastisement with the goal of repentance and forgiveness. For David knows YHWH’s mercy as he proclaimed: “I am in great distress. Let us fall into the hand of the Lord, for his mercy is great; but let me not fall into the hand of man” (2 Sam. 24:14).
God’s wrath is poured out upon those who reject him and remain unrepentant. They have rejected God’s mercy and grace. They are punished without hope. They do not cry out in lament but cry out in anger and “gnashing of teeth” (Ps. 112:10; Mt. 8:12). They will not be heard for they broke covenant with God. Jonathan Edwards preached that the only thing standing between such people and the pit of hell is God’s long-suffering patience. The opportunity for repentance will pass and that time may be sudden.
Who do you cry unto? Do you know the Lord? Is he your father? Is he your hope and comfort? Who can deliver you? Medicine or an operation my help today but you will face deaths door with certainty. What lay on the other side for you? Is it wrath or love? This is what our Lord is teaching you through trials such as illness. To know him, trust him and love him is to be able to say with Paul: “For to me to live is Christ, and to die is gain” (Phil. 1:21). Though ill and suffering, in life or death, Paul served and honored Christ knowing he will be with the Lord.
Therefore, in illness and suffering the first thing is to take stock of your relationship with God. Only children can cry to their father. Are you a child or a stranger and enemy? God asks that you bring nothing but your sin to him. He provides all else including the faith and strength you need. It is all of grace, a free and undeserved gift. Repent and trust in the Lord, Jesus Christ. Enter the rest of the Father. For then, he will surely hear your cry (Ex. 22:23).
Next we will look at how David, a man after God’s own heart,
seeks the Father.
[1] Hays, J.D. & Duvall, J.S. eds., 2011. The Baker Illustrated Bible Handbook, Grand Rapids, MI: Baker Books